A self-aware approach to life would include the following prescriptions, which were drawn up by Deepak Chopra and Dr. Rudy Tanzi for the book, Super Brain:
- Be passionate about your life and the experiences you fill it with.
- Remain open to as much input as possible.
- Don’t shut down the feedback loop with judgment, rigid beliefs, and prejudices.
- Don’t censor incoming data through denial.
- Examine other points of view as if they were your own.
- Take possession of everything in your life. Be self-sufficient.
- Work on psychological blocks like shame and guilt – they falsely color your reality.
- Free yourself emotionally – to be emotionally resilient is the best defense against growing rigid.
- Harbor no secrets – they create dark places in the psyche.
- Be willing to redefine yourself every day.
- Don’t regret the past or fear the future. Both bring misery through self-doubt.
I try every day – the hardest one is to remain open to input — it feels like criticism and I don’t listen. I’m working on listening much more and talking a lot less. Could I go a year without speaking? Could you?